An Exciting New Project

I've designed a new project that can be both fascinating and fun to participate in, and that can be very effective in bringing your male/female nature into greater balance and unity.  What results from that is greater creativity and also more ecstasy in your life.  And that greater sense of ecstasy doesn't have to involve physical sex, although if you still engage in physical sex it will make it more fulfilling and spiritually satisfying. 

All of this happens because of greater balance and harmony between your inner man and inner woman.  Ecstasy and creativity occur when your inner man and inner woman work together in balance and unison.   And that happens when you get more practice and experience using your masculine and feminine energies.  It's not complicated.  It's just a matter of getting a little more experience and practice with those energies and getting to feel more comfortable with them. 

The trouble is that we've all been taught from childhood to identify with our biological gender, and for the most part we think of ourselves as being either just a man or just a woman.  And as a result we don't feel as comfortable with the energies of the other side of the gender polarity. 

Ok, so how is this new project going to fix all this?  It's very simple.  So simple in fact, that you might find it hard to believe.  What this new project is going to do is invite you to play a funny, childish, and silly game that will automatically give you some more practice and experience in playfully changing gender identity, until it becomes more and more comfortable and easy for you to do so.  That will loosen up your gender rigidity, and gender rigidity was the only thing that was interfering with your male and female energies working together in balance and unison. 

But you have to understand that the game we're going to play is very childish and silly.  You can't be serious about this.  You have to approach it with childlike wonder and playfulness.  If you get serious about it you'll just end up deciding it's totally stupid and you'll quit.  Keep it very simple.  All you have to do is relax and play with it.  Playfulness is the key. 

Ok, what we're going to do is look at some pictures of some movie stars and other famous people.  You'll recognize them easily, but in the picture it will be very vivid and obvious that their gender has been switched.  For example, General Colin Powell is going to very clearly look like a woman.  And a very appealing and attractive woman too.  They won't look like freaks. They'll all look perfectly fine as the sex opposite to their biological gender identity.  Arnold Schwartzenegger is going to look like a thoroughly credible and gracious lady.  Angelina Jolie is going to look like a very fine and attractive gentleman. 

Now if you'll just relax and play with this, you'll find it all to be very fascinating and funny.  The thing is this.  The more easily you can allow and enjoy the movie-star's change in gender identity, the more easily you'll be able to allow and enjoy gender changes in yourself, so you'll be able to meet each situation with the gender energy that's most appropriate, instead of being rigidly stuck with one type of gender energy alone.  And more importantly, you'll be able to meet many situations with a harmonious unification of both gender energy  types, and that's when creativity and ecstasy will come into greater expression. 

But actually you really don't have to understand any of this, nor think about it, nor be concerned about it in any way.  It all will happen automatically of it's own accord without your conscious attention, direction or control.  The only thing you have to do is have fun imagining these famous people being the opposite sex that these pictures will so clearly display them to be.  What could be simpler than that?

It's so easy any child could do it.  But it's also so innocent that only a childlike state of mind will be able to relax and enjoy it and not clog it all up with judgments and concerns and questions and doubts and seriousness and objections and arguments and resistance. 

If you would like to explore all this in greater depth, an excellent book on the subject is June Singer's "Androgyny."  If you'd like to try it, just click here.  That's all you need to do. 

Much Love,

Ben

P.S. You can also delve deeper yet into the spiritual dimensions of sexuality in my lecture on the Crown Mysteries